Got off the phone with H. He is in a great mood. Working on a project with his brother (partner). They've been talking. H says he knows it's blood pressure/stress making him "sick." As soon as work was officially over and the phone stopped ringing he felt okay again. He said that's the way it was all week.
He said, "...well...I guess I'm gonna have to call the doctor next week. Brother said, do you want your head to blow??"
So in one sentence, his brother got him to agree to call the doctor and get medicine again.
For people who are newer to my thread...well, after the big showdown about 2 years ago when I decided I'd had enough and turning into a WAW...he got diagnosed with the anxiety and his doctor gave him Paxil. His behavior had dramatic improvement, enough that I stuck around even though I was sure I'd leave him anyway. Then he got sick and everything went on the course it's on now.
Of course he ditched the Paxil a while back.
OMG, if he will go back to taking it along with some of the changes he's been working at I feel like there's a much better chance.