Last night we went to dinner and on the way I asked if he had talked with the gal that does registration for Retro. He said no, did you? I said I had and that she is just going to ask a few questions like "Are you willing to go?" "Is there abuse?" "Are there any 3rd parties?" etc.... He was like "okay." He didn't grimace or make faces or sigh or anything that would indicate he wasn't planning on going.
The gal called me today to say that they had spoken and that I should go ahead and send in the deposit. His parting words to her were "We'll be there."
Of course, there's still 3 weeks to go.
He also surprised me by suggesting we go camping this weekend. Just a short trip as it is the maiden voyage of the 40 year old trailer we've been working on.
OTOH- my friend wanted to see a pic of H's boat and so I went on FB and pulled up the photos. UGH! Pics of him and 2 girls in bikinis on the boat. (There were 2 other guys on the boat, too.) But one of the two has a GF and she wasn't one of the bikini girls. I have to say-- there is nothing that is incriminating. His guy friend was taking the shots and posted a link to A TON of them. (I only found them because my H was "tagged".) The pic where he is closest to one of the girls is no more damning than if I leaned in with a girlfriend to raise a toast to the camera.
The thing that irked me, though, is that I'm not part of the fun. That hurts. I figure it will come up in retro, so I am just leaving it be, for now.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
