Jack,

I haven't defended myself and if I work on my own stuff and I haven't demonized or been angry with her at all or laid a quilt trip ever.

I saw the if you're fat post,but what about things they say that aren't true like all the stuff that happened at the house after i left.That's easy to not respond to.

But if they say you never did,blah,blah,if that's something I wanted to do,take a mental note and if it wasn't going to be or ever be me,just ignore it?

How do I find some of the other threads of those before us?