Well, with conflicted people - not sure this is specific to women - you have to understand that you'll be hearing from whichever side of 'conflicted' is on top at the time.
If it's the "I'm outta here" side, you get real estate listings. If it's the "But (maybe) I (still) love him and dayum he's hot" side, you get kisses and LM.
And yes, it can turn on a dime. Never said it was easy to deal with, but that's about how it goes.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137