Originally Posted By: Forrest Gump
Sometimes the approval we seek.. makes us look "needy" to the people we hold close. From a reader's (perspective) you even admitted that it was tiring and was a let down to you.


I so see you point. I'm really trying to GAL and look nice etc just for me and not care about H. So hard sometimes.

Well, H called and he accepted my offer to "front" a little $ from our tax refund to cover his negative. It is the nice thing to do, he can learn his own lessons later I guess. I was actually surprised at his positive reaction to my offer... and I took your advice FG and told him that I had looked b/c I was curious.... SO now I won't be doing that again! Thanks!!


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

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