Last thing if you're still here...what's your opinion...do I approach him on the anxiety issue this weekend, and wait til next week (or later this weekend) for this finance stuff? I don't think he's very ready right now.
First walks in the door usually not good.
Make sure he is rested, fed and sober. Maybe tell him on Sat, "I need 15 minutes or so to talk to you about our finances. When is better ______________or ___________?"
You can handle it.
Coach
ps Have you seen Forrest Gump around? I wish I could see his face when he reads your dream about the unicorns.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.