Phoenix..why does anyone have to be wrapped around a finger? Why does he have to be in the "position of power," which assumes that one person has to be in power over the other.
Breakaway, you just like to argue with everyone. You like to pick apart wording instead of looking at any intent. So for your benefit:
Tristan up to this point has not even had "power" over himself. I have power..my wife has power. We each have the power to be fine on our own. We each have the power to kick the other to the curb if we cheat. Tristan has been cheated on. He needs to be in a position of "power" where his wife knows he doesn't tolerate being cheated on. A relationship isn't one person master and the other servant...but it isn't one person cuckold and the other person cuckolder either. While power can be "shared", wives (and husbands) shouldn't be shared (with other people). In order to break the hold of OM, the cheated on spouse has to be prepared to not accept anything less than all of their spouse.
