So yesterday I had on a cute skirt and tall black boots. I was complimented by at least 3 guys. When I got home, my H was with the girls... didn't even notice me. So tiring...

But I do have a ?

I looked in H's account this morning and it is negative $90. He must have changed the settings and the email alert now must be going to a different email account so I couldn't delete it and he will surely know that I looked in his acct.

? #1 - What do I say about snooping (my best attempt is to tell him that I am completing last year's taxes finally and needed some info).

? #2 - Do I offer him $$$ to cover the negative (when my making more money and "controlling" the finances in our relationship was an issue)


HIW
M 35
H 37
D 5, D 2
Married 1996
Dating 1992
Met 1988
EA/PA started March 2009
Bomb 6/16/2009
Separated 6/23/2009

"Once you choose hope, anything's possible."