Well Sg, I have to look at it in a completely different light: no, I don't want her around as my 'friend', would be nice, but life would go on just as well. BUT, she does need to differentiate where OUR relationship ended, and where the relationship between ourselves AND OUR KIDS MUST continue.

No if's ands or buts about it and she not only has a moral obligation to do so, but a LEGAL one.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11