Last night was H's movie night at some friends' house. He took them back their vaccuum cleaner with my thanks. I've never been invited to this do, but it hasn't bothered me. H was very apologetic about going, and thankful for my 'indulgence.' I shooed him out the door saying that friends and a social life were both good things that I wanted him to have. (True!)
Given how tired he seemed before he left, I expected him to be at the end of his rope by the time he got home, which was pretty much true. I had the bed all pulled out and made up. He gave me a pumpkin empanada that the female half of the couple had made, then went to read to kidlet.
There was very brief chit chat before we snuggled down into the pull-out bed and went to sleep. W/o going into details, another little milestone fell by the wayside bedroom-wise, though it had the feel of simple comfort-seeking rather than passion - and that's just fine. There were also reciprocal tushie squeezes this week, with sort of a playful 'Don't let the guests see!' air to them.
The banter continues, though there hasn't been much opportunity for it with as full of a house as we have.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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