I haven't posted much, but have been following your sitch for some time. Its kinda similar to mine.
I don't know if I would go with the lawyer that e-mailed you. They all say that because they want the business. I LOVE my lawyer, she has told me several times she thinks we are going to reconcile before this over. But anyway, just make sure you are comfortable with who ever you choose. I made it clear to mine that I did not want a divorce. She has given me advice based on this, and not the "lets get him" attitude most have.
If you get time would you mind popping over to my thread. I just updated it today after not posting anything for over month, so the update is kinda long!
