"As for stbx's reaction to your e-mail, I find it to be both disappointing and very telling. It is disappointing b/c he's showing he's not able to fight for your M. It is very telling b/c it shows that he just doesn't seem to "get it."
LOL... It is clearly just "More of the same". This has been his issue all along. My honest opinion is that his pants have not gotten hot enough yet for him to move. There is no reason for him to jump.
"If he can't figure out what to do, if he doesn't know what needs to be fixed, and if he can't understand what you need from him as a partner, lover, and friend, then he seems to be unfortunately lost. Very sad."
He knows, he understands. He just does not have a compelling reason to do anything. He has not lost anything yet. He is close (to losing something).. but he can still see "something" there. Any time is this stitch were there has been a compelling reason for him to move.. he has.
Stop reinforcing that you don't think it is gonna work. Stop sending him emails about what you need/want. Leave him with the impression he has "something to lose". It will be OK to fake it. You would be happier without him anyway.
