@Coach, I agree. And, I'm a trial lawyer, so I read peoples' body language, mannerisms, expressions, tone of voice, etc. for a living.
So you know how to mirror them then get them to follow you?
Make it a goal for her to do something. The hard part about that is you don't control her so your actions are how you measure yourself. Every year we want to win a State Championship, that's the goal. My job as the head coach is to plan and prepare the team. I only have control over how we practice and gameplan. Injuries, weather, officials, the opponents are all out of my control.
If you make it a goal it's amazing what happens, look at Dia.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
