This is similar to my sitch = I'm one of those Sex-Starved Wives where the man actually never initiates. So, of course now my H doesn't reach out to touch me - he never did to begin with.
However, I also notice tone of voice and interest in me. I say if those are the particular indicators our spouses are giving, then let's notice them. It's positive movement toward us.
So good for you, GIMA!
I really wish my W was someone who initiated. I thought if I just stopped she would eventually start. I don't know if it works like that though. As mentioned before, some people just may not have it in them.
Sounds like GIMA's W had it at one time, but maybe it's not there right now.
Wasn't it Coach who said that sometimes we have to "lead." (forgive me if I'm quoting incorrectly)
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
