@Dia, Not sure what I am supposed to try out for her. The issues you listed for her showing signs (strainghtening my collar) just are NOT present in my sitch. There has been very little touching.
Tell her her hair looks nice. Reach out and finger a tress or tuck it behind her ear. Lean in and smell, then tell her how good it smells.
Compliment her blouse. Touch the fabric.
Admire her outfit - slowly. Ask her to turn around for you. Let her see the desire/admiration in your gaze. (Fake it if you have to.)
Take her to dinner. Open doors, pull out her chair, help her with her coat, escort her with your hand on the small of her back.
You've asked me this before - What worked when you were courting? How did you make the leap to open affection, physical or otherwise?
Last edited by Dia; 09/25/0904:59 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
