FWIW, I *did* miss H. Bitterly. It took a few months to get past the hurt and anger. But after that, I missed him horribly. And I know he missed me, too.
I can't guarantee that will happen with everyone, of course. YMMV
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137