CL & DBurt, Thanks so much for your input. You're right, confidence in my own decision making is not strong, at the time I need it most. Thanks for the moral support. I am informing her now of my decision. It seemed weird to me too that she's pushing me, kind of presumptuous. I did call her twice after initial consult, maybe she thought I was taking too much of her time? Anyway, cant' deal with more people pressuring me! Thank you both for for checking in & I hope things are going well or at least OK for you!
Calliope, I will check out your thread. Thanks so much for your reply. I do suspect an A. Could be an EA, or a PA. I was in denial for several mos. after the bomb, & when I asked him of course he said no. But thinking back to the past 6-9 mos., the clues are there. He calls the person I suspect a "close friend". Also informed me in June that she got separated too! And, he dog-sat at her house while she vacationed, I know they talk alot & did even before he dropped the B.
H has had a history of women friends though, that were really only friends, i.e. a female roommate, yrs. before we met. But what's made me conclude there's something up is this push since Aug. to "finalize" things. Being REALLY pushy, & that is not his normal nature. Although there is little remaining now of what was the guy I thought I knew, my H.
Anyway, I'll definitely stop by your thread. Thanks so much for taking time to check in. The support I get here is truly a lifesaver. Hope things are going OK for you. LFA
