I fully expect her to move. I think she feels she HAS to. That may be a catalyst to get things better. She can't "miss" me until I'm not around her every day.

In a weird way, I am kind of looking forward to her going. She can see that what's she's been "missing...out there" isn't so special. I will be able to go home to piece and quiet.

It's just that now she'll have something to think about all alone in her new place.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.