Are you going somewhere or are you going to sit there through it?

I'm not sure how I'm going to work this with my W. I have a feeling she is going to transition little by little instead of make a clean break.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.