well this is the third appointment he has had an excuse for now... really, really discouraged today. I know you are right... take the focus off him... I am trying. Just feel so, so sad today. Plus, I can feel that he wants to pursue OW and is "worried" about how she is doing... He pretty much said that. doesn't seem to matter how i am doing tho.... *sigh* just trying to keep breathing in and out....