Sounds like your love tank has just been dry for a while. Overdrawn if you will.
NO DOUBT there. I have been trying to fill that myself, and maybe I haven't been doing too well this week. But, I think I am growing tired of being the one, and ONLY one, to fill it. Maybe that's where the anger/resentment comes from.
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Maybe Dia's right. Maybe you need to make a little move. Maybe something small, but enough to show movement. Has your W ever been they type to make the first move? Did she ever persue? I'm starting to think that some people just don't have it in them. I have made a few "moves" on my W recently. She was really receptive. I don't think that she would have EVER made the move herself though.
W is very strong and independent. She has no problem speaking her mind when she feels the need. But, that was pre-bomb W. And as I have been more assertive, I have noticed less assertiviness in her.
Could be a number of things, all requiring mindreading. Maybe she's still "done" (don't think that's it), could beshe doesn't know how to make the first move at this point, could be she is the scared one now, could be she has too much pride. Don't know.
