My S is an only child. W likes to have another kid over for him to play with because she sees it was easier too. She lets them play together so it frees her up from being the playmate for a little while.
Sounds like your love tank has just been dry for a while. Overdrawn if you will.
In my sitch I get little "Ups" that make a few drops of deposit every once in a while that seem to keep me going. (then she rips my guts out)
Maybe Dia's right. Maybe you need to make a little move. Maybe something small, but enough to show movement. Has your W ever been they type to make the first move? Did she ever persue? I'm starting to think that some people just don't have it in them. I have made a few "moves" on my W recently. She was really receptive. I don't think that she would have EVER made the move herself though.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.
