I thought I'd stop by and add to your thread since you kindly did to mine.
It sounds as though you're doing really great. Well done on changing over the bank accounts and pet insurance. I know how that is as my W and I had everything joint. There's one account which is still in both our names but we've been in to the bank on a few occasions to try and split it but it doesn't seem to be working. It's the account my W now uses. I think the problem is that I was the first name on it. That possibly makes it more difficult. Who knows? It means the bank statements still get sent to my address but I know better than to pry in to what she's doing.
That fact you've been at this for 2 years gives me a bit of a kick up the arse in that I definitely think I was starting to giv up too early. I've only been separated for 8-9 months but was already throwing in the towel. At the end of the day, you have to be ready to say enough is enough. It may be a good thing for you to go completely dark. Got to be worth a try anyway eh?
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
