As far as detaching, I remember I had my doubts buit there were definate good results. It just took time. You want to keep them guessing. Don't be mean, just indifferent. Life is great and you're finding yourself and getting a life. If you don't have anything to day to him, then don't talk to him! Thius is a great time for you to take a breath and work on you!
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08