Who is this person?

[Day by Day]

I learned that H is going to a counseling session alone with the counselor the kids see. I'm happy to hear that he will be speaking with a counselor and he did that on his own. Good for him.

BUT, thinking back to the last time H and I went to this counselor under the intention of getting along for co-parenting, the C said some things that really disturb me and has me concerned that C will mess things up.

At that session H mentioned D and the C said that we are practically D anyway just without the papers. That left us both silent for a while. Then when I saw the C alone, he recommended a support group his associate was starting for women going through D. WTH?? He's formed his opinion about our situation and I do not see him as going to help us. My D told me the C tells her that he doesn't want to see us D and is trying to help us get back together and D was happy about that. He does seem to help the kids, but I'm worried that he will cause more damage to the marriage.

It was last month H mentioned D in C and he said I should see a lawyer myself and see where I stand because he did. I already had and I presented him with the business card of my lawyer right then and there. I was prepared. And it shocked him. Nothing since then. I've been polite and acting detached since then. We haven't had any R talks since then either.

I'd appreciate any input on this... don't know whether I'm right to be concerned about the C.