OK. I could use some advice. My w. just called to tell me that my D5 said that she wanted Mommy and Daddy to have a nice dinner together before we become unmarried and that she would watch her little brother. It broke my heart to the point where I was speechless. Then my w. said "I am sorry I am doing this to her and to you. I hope you don't hate me." I was speechless. I didn't know what to say. So I just said I shouldn't be getting into this while I am at work. She got pissy and that ended the call.

What should I have said?

What should I do now?