Well, here's another idea, if X is concerned about what the loaned funds will be used for: tell him to take some time out and take his D grocery shopping. Not only will it rest his concerns of where the money went, but give him some time iwth his child.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11