Gima,

You're right on the money, as usual. I have. I read Pia Mellody's Facing Codependence. Much didn't resonate with me: it's very family-of-origin trauma/abuse related.

But I am going to get CoDependent No More and read that.

Thanks.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac