Doormat - I still don't know a lot about the details of your sitch. Can you put some more details on your thread? When did this come about? Anything that triggered it? How have you come out of this before? What are the 180s that you are doing? How long together etc?

From what I gather, you may benefit from the book No More Mr. Nice Guy (Robert Glover). I think it would be worth checking out for you.

Yeah - if losing your W isn't hard enough, the financial and kid part of this make it all a real nice package deal huh?

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.