I can feel and imagine the roller coaster of emotions that you are on. As wonderful as your positing sounded, it also sound rather bleak....I am afraid that something identical is happening here. W and I went to dinner and got along all nite, she thanked me for taking her out etc.... everything is nice...but not a ton of indication that she is changing her mind. She is still very very secretive and hides her feelings and other stuff as well.
I am happy that you had a wonderful experience EB. I hope for you that I will result in many more days like this, and end in a positive note when it's all done and said.
I on the other hand (even though the news is only 9 days old) am not feeling quite so promising.