Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[BigJohn]

May be a good time to just walk away? You know I'm married to the man with the foulest temper and mouth to match - and what I'm learning is that even THEY don't know what they are saying when they are exploding with anger. Of course it wont be rational. It's all anger driven.

You're doing well staying centered, Zen Master! Way to be like water.

Thanks Hope. You know, you make a good point here. So many of us really don't know what we are always saying (or doing for that matter) to others, especially the ones we love. We get so caught up in the rest of what life throws at us on a daily basis and we just don't always pay attention to the small stuff- the details. It's kind of sad. Looking back, I certainly wish I had been able to establish better communication with my W so I could have been better aware of at least what I was doing wrong in our MR. I wish my W would give me a second chance, but apparently I'm not worthy enough (at least not yet), especially with Mr. Amazing (OM) waiting in the wings. But, that is in the past for now. I just need to stay on point as planned.... and be like water, of course.