Question for gucci loafer. DO you think it is ever too late to try this? Our divorce has been in process for 1 1/2 years. I have remained hopeful, and he has given me hope, but not very much in the last months. We had hit a place where there was much anger between us and I rec'd suggestion from DB Coach to stop, and try to regain friendship. That happened, but it feels husband is quite fine remaining friends, infact I believe it is aleviating some of his guilt. I am sure the OW is still around, and maybe new ones. He has not attempted to stop divorce, although he has been flirtatious with me and calling more. I think it is time to make him uncomfortable, and make him wonder about me. I don't know that it will work at this late date.