You are always an inspiration, my friend.

And in one or more of your recent posts the "Stop talking about (spouse)." Idea hit home.

With some people, it's all I talk about. Perpetuates the all-too-easy victim mentality.

And I've decided that agonizing and anguishing is always a choice. I do it less and less.

I'm kinda-lovingly adopting a f**k her policy, quite frankly.

Hope to, would love to, see you soon. I'll call.
*hugs*

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac