Hi Belle, I have been gone from these boards for a long time it seems... but have often thought of you and finally found your posts tonight. I am sorry that things have not worked out in your situation. It sounds like you have really worked hard, and have very strong faith. I believe that will carry you through with your decision. It still sucks.
Things have worked out with my H and I. He came home right before x-mas last year, and we slowly started putting our life together again. He kept his apt. until he graduated in May, but never really stayed there. We have moved for his internship, which has put a huge strain on our finances, but after last year I have learned that we are putting our marriage first, and I am so happy to say that we are so incredibly strong at this point. I really give my H credit, because it would have been so much easier for him to leave... I am sorry your H has not come around.
We are actually thinking about kids... I can't believe we have come this far! We occasionally talk about what happened, but have really not dwelled on it much. Forgive, and learn how to move forward.
I hope you find peace and happiness, even if it is with D
(oh- sig is not updated... we are a year older and very much together!_
Last edited by optimistwife; 09/25/0903:48 AM.
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
