For example, I met someone recently, though I never thought I would be remotely intimate with another man until I was divorced and done with H. Well, my meeting this new person opened up a whole world of new possibilities for me and when I came back from being away, I was noticeably different. I wasn't trying to make H jealous, heck I wasn't trying to do anything but the effect was that H saw me differently and I see myself differently.
Me too aliveandkicking. I dont know Hs feelings on it and nor do I care. For whatever it is worth, the effect of someone desiring me again and again and again ( ha ha ) and having someone who really wants to know how my day is going is so heart warming and so propelling that it should almost have to be a must on someones GAL list.
My intention is not to cause jealousy , but hell if thats what happens to the WAS then woo hoo. How does that feel now !
Karma karma karma
And SP, as for woman, any relationship between a man and a woman which is close and not yet sexual is frightening because as woman we put a lot of emphasis on that form of intimacy.
Sex is a big deal, but most woman can get any man to bed. To engage with a man through language and other non sexual forms of communication and hold his interest is very threatening for any third party involved.
In fact having been on both sides now , if I had to choose which sort of infidelity to loose my h to, i would say sexual. If he does not have the other and it is all about sex , then chances are the relationship is finite.
