Retrovaille would be as much to convince me as him that there is any possible chance for us as a married couple.
As I understand it, Retro is not about convincing anyone to stay in a M. It is about improving communications and exploring what is there in a R together.
The end result is that most people (in cases where there is no active A etc) who do complete the program do decide to reconcile / stay together, but there is no hard sell during the program.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
