Actually, I think this is covered in the books, though maybe it was relating more to affairs? I seem to remember a line about "I don't like how I'm feeling around other men."
At any rate, it's only LRT that says 'no R talks'. And to my eyes, neither Thinker nor GIMA are in LRT.
DR says to ask for what you need, and to experiment and see what works. I think it's DR anyways. Maybe a review of the sections not pertaining to LRT would be in order?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
