NSD: The good thing that you have is that you are dating and have some sort of intimacy. I wish I could give you positive advice. You know where I am at with my sitch after 5 months. Nowhere.. But there does seem to be interest on her part to want to try. My only recommendation is the changes you need to make. Don't lose your sense of self. I know it seems that we do that--put our pride, self, what ever you want to call it on a shelf while our spouse works it out. I do think if we let that happen continually, we end up looking unattractive to our spouse...Good luck and hope the weekend treats you well. Those always seem to be the hardest on me.
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