Haven't posted recently as there isn't really all that much to say. I'm working. She's working. We're raising kids. We're cooperating. There's not much else to the R right now.
No fights, but no real connection.
Inside I want more, desperately, but can tell that she is not interested or is not capable of more right now.
I was just reading on GIMA's thread and his mood there seems to be paralleling mine right now. I am frustrated and tired and often feeling a bit walk-away-ish myself. I also often feel like initiating an R-discussion to tell her how I am feeling. I'd like to make sure she know that I am not happy and that if things don't change, she will lose me. But for now I am refraining.
I know that I can't go on forever like this.
As the LBS, we always say we wish our spouse had said something to us earlier - when there was still enough there to be able to fix things. What is it we wish they had said?
Again, I am taking a deep breath and saying nothing...
Retrouvaille is in 15 days.
Last edited by Thinker; 09/25/0902:33 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
