If the love stuff continues its goneward creep, it's certainly possible for *You* to initiate something of an R talk with Mrs. GIMA along the lines of "I don't like how I'm feeling lately. I think some X and Y might be beneficial for me."
And you can always slip her your copy of LL.
I have been having this exact thought recently - "Is it forbidden to initiate an R discussion to tell someone you are starting to walk away yourself"
We all say that we wish our WAS's had said something earlier when it could still have been fixed - well - what is it we wish they had said?
Thinker, your point had not occured to me. But it is a great observation.
Still, we are not supposed to initiate those types of converstions. I suppose if I find myself in this place over and over, I may have to bring it up.
And that's the rub. How do you know where the line of I don't want her anymore is so you don't let yourself cross it?
