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[awest1217]

H called right after appointment (first time in a week and only because I text saying I was thinking about him, praying it would go well, and asked if he did not mind to let me know what happened. Just now text to say he appreciated my thoughts and was sorry for being "distant" because he is worried about what the doctor said and the fact that the meds may not work which means more tests. I just said I understand and I was praying and that was it. H said he appreciated it "more than you know".

I really am trying to listen, but that is it. H may ask about pizza tomorrow because he always go to my in laws together for pizza on Fridays, but this week I have plans and I am going to stick to it, first time ever!

As for the comments above, thank you for the compliments about not making money a huge issue, although I know I deserve it. Also I know it is crazy that I am putting up with him doing this more than once with each time it escalating to him moving out with the OW. I am going to see how this weekend goes. If there is nothing, no contact, phone calls, etc, I will try to gain enough strength to call a lawyer. I am really scared...