They are Christians. And they told me in no uncertain terms that the ONLY hope for my marriage is to file and force my H to face the consequences for his decisions.
DiDi,
I did read this. I disagree with that being the only way to salvage her M. Sometimes things just take longer than we would like them to. It can take many years to fix something like this. Kevin
Kevin,
So, even though Dan is an abuser, BBJ should stand for her M? She should continue to be berated, put down, yanked around, and possibly subjected to life-threatening diseases from her repeatedly cheating H? She should show her daughter that this is how a man should treat a woman? Because if she continues to take it from him, her D will, indeed, grow up with that model of relationships as her ideal.
You may make whatever choice you wish for your own life and M, but BBJ has, not at all lightly, made a choice for her own life.
And to quote Dr. Phil, how's that working for you Kevin?
God does not require victimhood or martyrdom from people. Suffering does not make you a Christian.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
