If the love stuff continues its goneward creep, it's certainly possible for *You* to initiate something of an R talk with Mrs. GIMA along the lines of "I don't like how I'm feeling lately. I think some X and Y might be beneficial for me."
And you can always slip her your copy of LL.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
