Hey, if he was going to the point of deleting ow's history, he would of deleted the number too.... he didn't, so I would believe there hasn't been any contact, well, at least with the phone. He has kept the number, so there's a safety net, but no contact, sounds typical of someone a drift in life.
Naw, I don't think she really was a threat, at any time, but something I learned along the way, we, the LBS' make more of the OW/OM than there ever really is within the relationship with the wayward spouse. Even though Dick married Jane, their marriage isn't what I'd call based on love, respect, or even have a bond. It's new cars and splitting the mortgage, lots of time in court, yes, both sides, arguing about child support and parenting.... they belong together, for it has no depth.
Now, did you enjoy that bite to eat? Did you have a nice conversation?
The reason he hasn't engaged in your marriage yet, is because he hasn't fully dislodged his head from his *** oops! It's not time yet, he hasn't fully connected the dots nor has he completed the picture....
Patience my dear..... patience.
EEEEwwweee... don't you hate that word!
Blessing, and enjoy the small moments.
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
