Thanks for your thoughts Jeff. The thing is that throughout the EA that went on from April til now, he has completely refused to let me see any online or phone communication (obviously). I am certain that if I start to push that issue now it will be something that pushes him away again. I feel that the little bit of progress we have made is really fragile.
BUT... you are right that it is more than reasonable of me to ask that.
I don't know... I feel quite torn about this...
He has agreed to joint counselling and I am hoping the M counsellor who seems quite pro-M will help raise that issue.
I am aware that there is a strong likelihood of slipping up...
