wouldn't guess what wife does for a living. MSTRs sp ed
of course <sigh>
Lostforwords makes a good point with the ADD and you kids. Some research would put you in the catbird seat to help them even more. With your experience you are invaluable to do just that.
As far as the school personel having your kids "best intersts" at heart, well, good intentions and all that. They may have a braoder base of experience, however you are the better expert on your kids (no sir, I've not had any bad experiences with that ).
It's up to you to advocate for them and to teach them to do this for themselves.
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