Thank you so much for some input/feedback. My MIL told me to calm down and put my game face back on too. Do NOT address this tonight, put it off until another time, if even then. I am just trying to come down off of my emotions running amuck right now.

The pics are of them and their faces together - and pics of the OW by herself and places they have been. Nothing graphic.

I think I have made progress as of recently and my reacting to it and confronting him about it right now would just do exactly what you are saying, push him back away.

I think I need to go for a run or bike ride though to clear my head - work out some of this emotion - soooo overwhelming!

For you - Just my opinion, but I would not venture to dig too deep in looking for evidence. I got caught up in that many years ago and it consumed me. I have felt so much better and more in control of myself throughout this ordeal in knowing that I have not done any of that.

Everything in my body is saying F-this, F-you, I am outta here! I have had enough and I deserve soooo much better than this!!!! Trying to fight it with everything in my being right now.

Me-34 XH-33 No Kids
We were M-12Y T-15Y
5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms
01/10 I filed for D / H moved out
09/16/10 Divorced