Less is gonna be more in this sitch IMO. Especially because there is OM, almost anything you say can be construed as pressure or measured against OM's actions.

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And then I told H, "You know, you don't have to respond." He asked what that meant and I explained to him (as my lawyer explained to me) that he doesn't have to respond. He doesn't have to answer. It can just sit there as long as I don't question where the response is, which I won't. I made that clear. I will not question why you have not answered.


I wouldn't offer this kind of information in this stich. Let her lawyer advise her. Do NOT tell her what to do or even suggest. Just take what comes as it comes and make your own decisions, one at time.

It is so challenging but it is best to manage one bit at a time.

Shmo disclaimer as always.