So I'm an idiot. I'm not on a plane right now as I should be. My flight was not for today....it was for YESTERDAY. H rebooked me and S for very early tomorrow saying...You have to go see your family. If you don't it's a complete waste of money....now it's just super expensive....but it's worth it. You have to go.
Then he told me not to call him at all tomorrow unless one of us is one fire! (Big golf tournament/weekend for him.) I said I will text you when we board and when get to our final destination. He said Good.
My old H would have done exactly what he did today. And this is all 100% my screw up too.