Thanks BM I'm feeling a little less bruised this evening. I think I felt stupid b/c if he had told me last week when he rang that he was dating someone else I wouldn't have asked him to come to the party with me.

No real harm done except a bruised ego on my part frown

When I think about it this is only the 3rd man in my life I've had a date with. The other two were H (who I met when 19)and a lad I went out with between the ages of 13 and 17. No wonder I don't know how to behave when dating a mature adult I've never done it before eek

Just hope I don't have to wait too long for the next one to come along. I'm tired of being by myself


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15